The low-demand morning routine is saving us. Sharing what we changed.

We dropped: enforced toothbrushing before breakfast, choosing clothes the night before (he wanted to choose in the morning), and the 'one warning' system. Added: a soft start window of 20 min where nothing has to happen, breakfast at the couch is fine, and a single visual schedule with magnets he moves himself. We've gone from 4 meltdowns/wk to 0–1.